Bet everyone here must have experienced both telling lies and becoming victim of the liar.
.. Lies which intended to us, that later lead an enormous hatred (forgiven but not forgotten)
There’s a lot of type of lies : bluffing, white lies, urgency lies, promotion lies, and so on.. I hate knowing that I was the victim of the liar, and assume everyone does the same way.
I know deception can sometimes have something to do with protecting someone’s feeling, telling lies for the sake of someone’s else..
But the questions then go like these :
– How can we tolerate the lie that can harm others?
– How if you are the liar? what level of tolerance you can go thru? As it’s so natural to defense and protect yourself, and blaming others.
I remember one of the related phrases in one of Taiwan Drama starred by Barbie Hsu and Alan Luo : Corner with Love, more or less like “Once you tell a lies, there’ll be another lies to hide the previous lies”
I myself prefer to tell the truth as the earliest as possible, regardless of how hurtful it’ll be, but later this way of thinking that i have believed since long time ago starts fading away. I’m thinking of no matter how i become the victim of the liars, as long as I still feel pleased, that’ll be okay. (notes, that I’ll never know the truth until the end of my life).
Argh.. People do change..
Life,human is full of mystery, is there any scientific research on this? *wondering*
Anyway, it’s real life, life can be either sweet or cruel to you depends on how you correspond on it.
Let’s face it, not with childish way, be GENTLE, BIG HEARTED to APOLOGIZE!
*Boring rambling after the devil vs angel war inside*